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Hilite of the 10 cara untuk kata TIDAK kepada anak tanpa perkataan TIDAK!
10: Nak makan jajan jer. suggests that parents deny certain junk food requests, like ice cream and candy, by offering a healthier alternative, such as yogurt.
9: Makanan jadi mainan. Instead of shouting as your toddler flings a bowl full of macaroni and cheese to the floor, simply take the bowl away and explain the reason why he shouldn't throw food.
8: Merosak mainan. Ask if you can join in and model the proper way to play with others.
7: Penanya pokok dan binatang. Give the child responsibility to learn that plants should be treated with respect, as with nature in general.
6: Main kasaq-kasaq. help the child begin identifying the feelings he is experiencing in any given moment.
5: Cakap mengarok. convince your child to speak in a normal tone.
4: Gelak lawan Hukuman. "Distraction and humor are excellent strategies to use with toddlers who are feeling stubborn or irritable,"
3: Ganti barang. Give your child a small and engaging toy instead the next time she tries to grab the phone.
2: Terus terang biar terang terus. Instead of chiding him to "stop taking your shoes off," explain what you want him to do instead
1: Ganti NO dengan perkataan tegas lain. raising their voice, shaking their finger or even looking scared